Rear Admiral Paul E. Sutherland, Jr.

Message from Glenn and Sue Welch

Dear Pat and Girls,
We just learned of Paul's passing and want to send you our most sincere and heartfelt sympathies. We loved Paul and love to tell stories about our time in the wardroom of the USS OHare. You are all in our thoughts and prayers and we would love to know how to reach you. With fond memories, Glenn and Sue Welch

Message from Lisa Kfoury Dellinger

Prayers and condolences for the family. I truly enjoyed working for Paul at Zenith Data Systems.

Message from Allen McBride

My prayers are with all of you as you remember and celebrate your Father's life. Michael recently told me that he hopes to one day be even half the man that Admiral Sutherland was. He was certain extraordinary. May God bless you during this very difficult time.

With love,
The McBrides

A candle was lit by Karen Bryce on November 15, 2017 1:25 AM

Expression of Sympathy

A GARDEN PATH was ordered on November 10, 2017

Expression of Sympathy

A Peaceful White Lilies Basket was ordered on November 10, 2017

A candle was lit by Sammy Entsminger on November 2, 2017 8:34 AM

Message from Michael & Geri (Sullivan) Zona

We were so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. He was an inspiration to us all in Southern Shores. He was a visionary and a true leader. Geri had an opportunity to work with him on the mid-Currituck Bridge initiative and he worked tirelessly to gather support across the area. We are so glad we had the opportunity to get to know him. Thank you for sharing him with us. Our sincere condolences on your loss.

Message from David Wayson

My mother worked with Paul's mom during the 50's in Annapolis. I am 4 years younger and remember Paul from High School. I remember his mom and dad taking him to be stretched to meet the height requirement for the Academy. On his first trip to Italy he was kind enough to bring my mom and I gifts. I still have the engraved leather cigarette case from him. He was a good man from a good family.

Message from Eugene M. Avallone

I would like to send my condolences to Paul's wife and children. I was his first classman at the Naval Academy, and a close friend of his wonderful parents. It is always sad to lose a friend. He will be in my prayers. Sincerely, Gene Avallone

Message from Carrie Gordin

I was so sad to learn of Paul's passing. I was the town clerk of Southern Shores for twenty years. I spent many working hours with him during his service to the town. I always had great respect for him. He would stop in town hall to see me when he came to town. The last time I saw him was in Food Lion, we had a nice talk in that we made a joke of you never know who you will see there. I have fond memories and send my sympathy in your loss of a fine man. Carrie

Message from Renee Cahoon

Paul was a wonderful friend. He led the Town of Southern Shores as Mayor with dedication to the citizens and community. His work as Chair of the dare Couty Tourism Board showed committment to the area and progress in advancing visitor experiences. He showed great leadership and insight on the Dare County Control Group during storm events. I have missed both he and Pat since they moved from the area but Paul made sure we kept in touch even recently with calls. He always gave of himself no matter where he lived. My deepest sympathy to your family. Paul will be missed.
Respectfully,
Renee Cahoon

Message from Cathy Calure

Pat: My sincere condolences for your loss. May you find comfort in the warmth of your memories.

A candle was lit by Andy Morris on October 27, 2017 9:37 PM

A candle was lit by Douglas L Brannon on October 27, 2017 6:23 PM

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Pat . . I was shocked and saddened when I read of Paul's passing. I still speak of him often in remembering all that he did for the Town of Southern Shores, the SSVFD, Dare EMS, and Dare County. I always enjoyed our conversations, and the email exchanges after you moved to Columbus. One of my favorite stories about Paul was on a Rescue 12 call at 3am, the ambulance left the scene enroute to the hospital, and Paul and I were standing in the middle of the street talking, when he suddenly said he had to go. I asked what did he have to do at 3am with such urgency. He replied, "I have turtle patrol"! He had to go to Nags Head, pick up the ATV, and ride up the beach looking for turtle tracks for the mother loggerhead turtles coming ashore to lay her eggs. Paul certainly left his mark on the Outer Banks, as I know he did wherever he lived and served with distinction. He will be missed!

Message from Love & sympathy from Timmy & Frances Lynch

We feel honored to have been neighbors of Paul. He was one of the first to welcome us as we visited TE. He was an incredible man, with much wisdom and knowledge. He will be greatly missed.

Prayers and sympathy to all the family.

A candle was lit by Carol Jackson on October 27, 2017 3:59 PM

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My deepest sympathies to Paul’s family. The world is a better place because he was here. He was a very honorable man and I am proud to have counted him among my friends. Rest In Peace my friend.

Message from Jean Shumway

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. He was a very special person and a big loss to the community too.

A candle was lit by Melinda Ryan on October 26, 2017 10:37 PM

Message from Jane Thompson

To the Sutherland family: so saddened to hear of the passing of Paul. Knew him through the local Military Officers Association of America. My late husband, who passed away in July 2016 of Alzheimer's disease, worked with Paul on the board of the Western NC chapter. Paul and I many times compared notes regarding the progression of the insidious disease that afflicted our beloved spouses. Paul was a kind, wise and caring man. He will be missed by many. My sincere condolences to your family.

A candle was lit by Marc Steinberg on October 26, 2017 4:33 PM

Message from Bill and Kaye Steele

Dear Family members - i worked with Paul on numerous duties at Tryon Estates and in the Western Region of NCCCRA for a number of years. Your father was a "dooer" and always went the extra mile to get the task accomplished. TE will not be the same with out his presence. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all as you continue down the way of life that he set for each of you. Thinking of you all, Kaye Steele

A candle was lit by Ann Marie Taylor on October 26, 2017 1:00 PM

A candle was lit by Clint Smith on October 26, 2017 12:04 PM

A candle was lit by Laura Andersen on October 26, 2017 12:01 PM

Message from Garland Goodwin

Admiral Sutherland made all of our meetings memorable by his warm welcoming manner and genuine interest in furthering the well-being of his fellow humans. He stood much taller in my estimation than his relatively small physical stature . . . I shall always cherish his memory as I go forth inspired by his example.

Message from Don & Pam Breivik

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Sutherland family at this time. What an incredible man you have the privilege to know & love. Always keep those wonderful family memories with you.
Love,
Don & Pam Breivik

A candle was lit by Sonya Owensby on October 26, 2017 8:53 AM

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Such a sweet man, always a smile on his face. I'm so glad I had the opportunity to know him. I knew him from coming in the doctors office in Landrum. He will be missed. With deepest sympathy.